back when myspace was popular and “dangerous” according to my mother, she wanted to go through my messages and whatnot. i had been talking to a guy on there and had told a couple of my friends i was gay via myspace message and i flipped out, started crying and everything because i didnt want her to see. so i just told her and yeah.
i didn’t really come out voluntarily, but i can suggest just sitting your parents and family down in a comfortable setting for the both of you and just let them know.
if they love and accept you, like they should, then everything will be fine. good luck.